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I don’t want to

for when you don't want to

It was a battle scene straight out of Star Wars.  Screaming, squealing and clawing.  Hair-pulling, scratching and tears… Alright, maybe it was more like a battle scene out of daytime tv. “I hate you“, she screams.  Toys are flying.  More scratching and hair-pulling, as I become increasingly aware that intervention will be necessary. With veteran battle skills, I peel them off of each other.  Still kicking and screaming they depart to separate spaces to sort out the mess. Lectures, tears, {Read More}

valentine’s alone

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Holidays.  They creep closer day by day.  I want to feel the excitement.  But I don’t. Decorations taunt me from the Target aisles.  Promises of a wonderful life or a happily-ever-after are vivid reminders that my life is not the way it is supposed to be.   Tears invade as I face the reality that the day will come and all will not be right.  I feebly attempt to fight off the captivity of my brokenness. photo credit The day {Read More}

a valentine for my beloved

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Precious daughter, I have chosen you as my own.  You are loved, redeemed and forgiven.  (Eph 1:4-7) I’m crazy about you.  It’s true! For I have not only given you flowers today, but I have clothed you in splendor.  (Luke 12:27) I have given you a crown of beauty and a garment of praise.  (Is 61:3) photo credit I have written you the longest love letter in history (Genesis-Revelation). I’ve given you breath-taking canyons, mountains and oceans (Genesis 1). I {Read More}

10 days to a meaningful valentine’s: saturday surfing

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Head over to ecards and make your own card for someone you love. Married?  Ann Voskamp offers up helpful marriage advice on fighting…. 5 ways to FIght Through to a loving Marraige  Read God’s love note to you by Incourage. Need help taking those thoughts captive?  I love this printable from the Better Mom. Struggling with contentment?  Read…Pray and ponder yourself into God’s sense of wealth by John Piper.

random acts of Valentine’s kindness

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Our circumstances changed and I had to find a new normal.  Instead of nutcracker ballets and gingerbread decorating classes, I had to get creative.  I read about an idea online and thought it was a good fit.  It was life changing. The idea was simple.  Everyday in December, bless someone with a RAK…Random Act of Kindness.  We looked around our house for things to give away and scrimped our grocery budget to buy treasures.  We put candy canes on windshields {Read More}

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