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What to do when your child struggles with math

March 14 By Kim Sorgius 5 Comments

14 Mar
What to do when your child struggles with math

I could smell the grass being cut outside the thin glass windows of my college Calculus II class that day. The room was silent and my exam book was closed. I had finished it. Every problem was completed. As I sat there smelling the grass and watching as students turned in their books and left for the summer, I found myself overwhelmed with emotion.

What to do when your child struggles with math

You see, this one class had cost me more tears than anything else I had done up until that point. The teacher was terrible and math was by far my weakest link. But it went deeper than that. Years of math struggles were dancing in my head, particularly that one day in 5th grade when the whole class laughed because I couldn’t think of the answer to 6×6.

Yep, right there in my college level Calculus class I cried. I don’t know if it was the release of a very difficult class being finished or the fear that I might not get the score I wanted on the final exam sitting before me. Or perhaps it was just the accomplishment of finishing FOREVER a subject that had proven to be the most difficult for me.

Whatever it was, I felt thankful, accomplished, and I left that day knowing that something great had happened.

You might read this story and feel as though you can relate to my utter hatred for math. Or perhaps you can just relate to the feeling of triumph over having accomplished something. But if you are like most, you’ll look at the word Calculus and say, “Yeah right. People who get that far never really struggled with math.” But that is exactly what I want to point out to you today.

It’s a lie. Yes, I took and passed (with straight A’s) two college level Calculus courses. But it wasn’t because math was EVER ever easy for me. Think back to that 5th grade girl who still didn’t know the answer to 6×6. Yeah, it was that bad. Math had been a daily struggle for me for as long as I could remember.

So why am I telling you this? It’s simple. Because we need to understand that even the hardest things in life- those things we struggle with the most- can become something very good.

My struggle with math grew me academically and taught me to persevere. And I want that for your child, too. So what if he/she is struggling with math right now. This isn’t forever and together we can beat it. Try to remember that it’s our struggles in life that push us to a level many never achieve. So, let’s get down to the business of helping our kids excel in math. You ready?

What to do when your child struggles with math

1. Master the basics

This is the area where most of our schools are failing. And many homeschool math programs are following similar trends. If we are going to be successful in math, we must learn the basics. There is no way around it and there is no success without it. Don’t worry about geometry, critical thinking, algebra, word problems, and other math concepts. First, we have to get our math facts straight.

child struggles with homeschool math

If you have a child who is struggling in math, this needs to be your focus right now. Stop everything else. Until it’s strong here, it won’t be strong. In my home, we use a program called Xtramath. It’s totally free and web-based. The student goes in daily and completes an assigned number of math facts. It starts with addition and moves all the way through division. Your child gets a unique login to track his progress.

I’ve used many fun programs and apps in the past (like Math Bingo), but this program far surpasses its rivals in that it’s tailored to the specific facts that your child needs to work on. It’s like personal flash cards with a built in accountability system to go along with it.

Don’t use a math program or curriculum until you’ve got this problem fixed. Yes, the other stuff will wait and your child will be fine if you aren’t teaching those things yet. Building the right foundation (or going back to rebuild) will change everything.

2. Let the computer do the teaching

Often children struggle with math because they can’t read the lessons or instructions. In the public school setting, many children have individualized learning plans that allow the teacher to read instructions and problems to the student even during standardized testing. The purpose for this is to allow the test to actually show math skills and not reading skills.

Your child may be struggling with this same problem. One easy solution is to go with a computer-based program that reads problems to the child and teaches the lesson. It’s more visual and most children find a much higher level of success with it. Not to mention, most homeschool families have multiple children making it difficult for mom to read every word to her child.

We use Teaching Textbooks for this purpose and love it! My kids went from daily tears over math to actually enjoying the subject.

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3. Make math about reading

It’s funny how we all struggle with different things. Some kids struggle with math because they struggle with reading. And other kids struggle with math, but don’t struggle with reading. My oldest and I are like this. Both voracious readers, math doesn’t make a lot of sense in our heads. For me, even though I’ve passed college level Calculus, math STILL doesn’t make a lot of sense in my head. I have just worked around that. But it’s not the best way (and it involves countless tears and struggles).

One thing I found to help my daughter is to make math about reading. There is a great series called Life of Fred that does just that. Instead of focusing on the technical procedures, each math concept is turned into story form. My oldest read the first 4 books the day we got them because she was so excited.

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4. Make simple tweaks

One more thing to consider if your child is struggling with math is to make simple tweaks in your agenda. Have her do 15 minutes of math and then take a break. Make sure you do math first or early in the day when her mind is fresh and not as tired. Allow your child to stand, lie on the floor, or whatever method she wishes in order to stay focused on completion.

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Your turn—>

In case this wasn’t already really obvious, let me say it again. Math can be conquered. We don’t have to give up or give in. We can accomplish our academic goals and not be consumed by this one subject. So, let’s start today. Comment and tell me one thing you are going to change tomorrow to help your children conquer math.

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Kim Sorgius

Through practical tools & Bible-based resources, Kim Sorgius is dedicated to helping your family GROW in faith so you can be Not Consumed by life’s struggles. Author of popular kid’s devotional Bible studies and practical homeschooling tools, Kim has a master’s degree in education and curriculum design coupled with over 2 decades of experience working with kids and teens. Above all, her most treasured job is mother and homeschool teacher of four amazing kiddos.

Comments

  1. Stephanie Carter says

    March 20 at 8:39 pm

    Thank you for reaffirming what I kind of ready knew. I closed the math book about 2 months ago for my 3rd grade son. Unfortunately, I haven’t seen much progress. So, I will be looking into Xtramath for him and see if that will help.

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  2. Sara says

    April 7 at 10:40 pm

    We’ve had a long arduous journey with math as well. Thank you for the reminders here. Especially to go back to the basics. I hit massive walls with my son fairly regularly. We take it slow and eventually things click. My daughter is hitting a major math wall now and I am reminded from this article to make sure she knows the basics. Picking math curriculum is so very stressful!!

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  3. CathyH says

    May 25 at 8:33 pm

    Sometimes a Math vacation will help. I mean a vacation FROM math. Take off a week… or a month. Sometimes just letting a child get a week or two older actually helps them. When you come back – ease into math (maybe half the usual work each day). Also recognize WHY a certain skill is troublesome. Long division? That is just guessing, and maybe your child is not guessing well. Is the work messy? Use graph paper with one numeral or operation in each square. Talk about math – how many cookies do I need to bake so we can all have 5?

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  4. Megan L. says

    February 1 at 2:40 pm

    This article hit so close to home, literally brought tears to my eyes. We are seriously struggling right now and it’s bringing out the worst in me as a parent and the worst in my child as well. Thank you for the extra tips and the little bit of hope that we will succeed and triumph against math 🙂

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  5. Betsy Mays says

    March 15 at 7:19 pm

    Thanks for this great article, reminding us that just because it is difficult now, doesn’t mean it will always be hard. I especially liked your suggestion to read about math. Sir Cumference is a good series for middle schoolers. I also like to play math games to help my kids. like Ten Fish and Absolute Zero from Games by Absolute Zero.

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